Imagine walking into a lawyer’s office, signing a ten-page contract without reading a word of it, and then being shocked—years later—when someone actually enforces the terms. That would sound ridiculous in almost any other context. And yet… that’s essentially how most people get married. Going in, marriage is widely viewed as a romantic commitment and a lifelong emotional partnership. What far fewer people truly absorb is this: Marriage is also effectively a legal contract. A

Discovering that your spouse wants a divorce is one of the most painful experiences you can go through. It can feel like the ground has disappeared beneath you, leaving you lost and uncertain about the future. While it's natural to want to fight for your marriage, this post isn’t about convincing your spouse to stay. Instead, it’s about helping you come to grips with reality, process your emotions, and take the next steps toward healing and rebuilding your life. 1. Acknowledg