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Marriage: The Contract You Never Realized You Signed
Imagine walking into a lawyer’s office, signing a ten-page contract without reading a word of it, and then being shocked—years later—when someone actually enforces the terms. That would sound ridiculous in almost any other context. And yet… that’s essentially how most people get married. Going in, marriage is widely viewed as a romantic commitment and a lifelong emotional partnership. What far fewer people truly absorb is this: Marriage is also effectively a legal contract. A
Joe Oberweis
4 min read


Litigation vs. Mediation: A Comparison
A clearer path toward your Marital Settlement Agreement and Joint Parenting Plan When couples begin exploring their divorce options, they’re often surprised by how different the experience can be depending on the path they choose. Two of the most common approaches the same ultimate goal: a finalized Marital Settlement Agreement (MSA)  and, if children are involved, a Joint Parenting Plan (JPP). But the similarities end there. The process , cost , tone , and level of control
Joe Oberweis
3 min read


When Your Spouse Has Decided to Divorce: Accepting Reality and Moving Forward
Discovering that your spouse wants a divorce is one of the most painful experiences you can go through. It can feel like the ground has disappeared beneath you, leaving you lost and uncertain about the future. While it's natural to want to fight for your marriage, this post isn’t about convincing your spouse to stay. Instead, it’s about helping you come to grips with reality, process your emotions, and take the next steps toward healing and rebuilding your life. 1. Acknowledg
Joe Oberweis
2 min read
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